Today, I dedicate this tribute to Baba, my grandfather-in-law, who recently passed away. I had the privilege of knowing Baba for 14 years, and his presence left a profound impact on our lives.
Baba was a remarkable man—wise, kind, and always supportive. He offered guidance without imposing his will, and his forward-thinking mindset was truly admirable. I deeply cherished the beautiful relationship he shared with his wife, Amma Ji.
He stood by Amma Ji through thick and thin, especially during her illness. Witnessing their unwavering commitment to each other taught me the importance of standing by your partner through all circumstances, echoing the vows of marriage until eternity. In this modern age, even the smallest strides towards positivity can redefine our lives.
I come from a spiritual family where daily rituals hold great significance. Baba’s dedication to spirituality mirrored my own upbringing. Despite my children being born in a different country, introducing morning and evening prayers into our household has enriched their spiritual foundation.
His disciplined lifestyle, from his early rise to his healthy habits, left a lasting impression on me. While I strive to emulate his discipline, I’m still a work in progress.
I remember a time when I injured my finger, and Baba personally took me to see his friend, Doctor Baba, for treatment. It was a small gesture, but it spoke volumes about his caring nature.
My husband and I are fortunate that both our children, Arnav and Aliana, received Baba’s blessings. Arnav’s first trip to India became extra special when he met his great-grandparents. Witnessing the joy of seeing their fourth generation brought immense happiness to both Amma and Baba. The memory of their happiness brings tears of joy to my eyes. Aliana’s first trip to India was also memorable, as she met Baba and received his blessings. Baba delighted in Aliana’s company, even sharing cookies with her. His heart overflowed with joy!
Reflecting on Baba’s life fills me with emotions. He played a significant role in our family’s happiness and strength. Though his physical presence is no longer with us, his memory will continue to guide us through life’s challenges. If given the chance to start anew, I would wish for the same loving grandparents, Amma and Baba. Their impact on our lives was truly profound.
‘Those we love don’t go away, they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near; still loved, still missed, and very dear.‘
Thanks for reading, Akanksha xo
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